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I leak thousands of ‘submissive’ men who worship me but NEVER give in to sex – I even tease strangers on the train

I leak thousands of ‘submissive’ men who worship me but NEVER give in to sex – I even tease strangers on the train

POWERHOUSE activist, feminist and dominatrix Chidera Eggerue joined the ‘We Need To Talk’ podcast to reveal all the juicy details about making money as ‘Goddess Gina’.

She joined host Paul C. Brunson to explain how she became so successful in sex the labor industry despite the fact that they are not waiting for their customers.

Chidera Eggerue is a well-known activist and feminist.

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Chidera Eggerue is a well-known activist and feminist.Credit: Youtube / @WeNeedToTalk-Podcast
Dominatrix also identifies as Goddess Gina.

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Dominatrix also identifies as Goddess Gina.

Paul was candid about the subject, admitting: “I’ve always, in my ignorance, associated being dominated with sex or BDSM, but you haven’t had sex in four years.

“So can you explain, what is BDSM?”

Chidera replied: “BDSM is about exploration power the dynamic between you and consenting partners.

“Consent is the overarching keyword in all of this, everything is entirely consensual and it’s about exploring doubt in a way that feels safe.”

Chidera uses the persona “Goddess Gina” for her sex work (which she insists is also the real her).

But where does goddess Gina meet submissive men?

“There are things like ‘play parties’, which are parties that are held for people in the kink community.

“Even in non-BDSM environments, there are subtle signs (you can tell a man is submissive).

“For example, if I’m on the train and I have one leg crossed over the other and I twist my shoe or it’s sandal season so your toes are visible and I notice the man sitting in front of me keeps looking at my feet, I I like to test it to see if it’s compliant.

“I might hold eye contact with him briefly and then look back at my feet to see if they turn red.

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“Men can also identify a dominant woman without her saying anything.

“Only by her behavior.”

Chidera went on to explain how sex doesn’t have to come into play: “So what’s interesting is that we (femdoms) don’t have sex with men.

“If, we do something called chastity.

“There’s a thing called a chastity cage, it’s a little device that the man can wear on his penis and it’s locked, so the woman holds the key and his penis is literally locked.”

— And that for a period of time agreed upon by him and his mistress.

Chidera keeps her 364,000 followers up to date on Instagram.

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Chidera keeps her 364,000 followers up to date on Instagram.Credit: Instagram / @theslumflower
The sex-positive star has no problem talking about taboo subjects.

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The sex-positive star has no problem talking about taboo subjects.Credit: Instagram / @theslumflower

So if Goddess Gina doesn’t have sex with her clients, what are they paying for?

Dungeon sessions

“This could take place in a dungeon-like environment, although it could even be a hotel room.

“That’s where all the equipment and tools are so you can do kinks like flogging or foot worship.

“You can also make them kneel and face the wall – there are men who will pay you just to ignore them.”

Edging

“If you pull someone off, normally the idea is when the person is close to orgasm and you stop to make the sex last longer.

“But in BDSM, especially in the context of a dominatrix and her male submissive, beating him is while he’s locked in chastity and you make him do things that benefit you.

“It can range from you making him do chores, being obedient, and rewarding him with a pat on the head and saying ‘good boy.’

“Making him kiss your feet, instructing him to pleasure you orally and again – all while he’s locked up.

“So psychologically it’s in a place where it’s useful to you, and it’s also very exciting.”

Permission to present themselves online

“If I meet further Twitter they must pay a tribute fee of £100 as an introduction fee.

“That money it is only that they may be permitted to present themselves to me, and that tribute charge gives them nothing.

“They have no right to my time, it’s just a gesture of them honoring the opportunity to greet me and say ‘hello goddess, this is who I am, I find you beautiful and I’d like to serve you.’

Financial domination

“I attract a lot of men who want to be dominated financially.

“This is where men like to be told what to do with their money by women they consider powerful.”

You can find Chidera’s Instagram here.

What your sexual fantasies say about you

Of Emma Kenny, a TV presenter and psychologist

Rampant RPG: If your partner likes to dress up for fun, it shows creativity and a willingness to keep things interesting. However, it could signal that they are struggling with responsibility.

Fantasies with multiple partners: The desire for variety does not always mean that he wants to cheat. However, it could indicate deeper feelings of unfulfillment.

Power and Control: A bit of dominance is normal, but if it’s always about control, it can hide insecurities.

Venture: Thrill-seeking men can push the limits, so make sure your area of comfort is respected.

Passion: If he is romantic, he is emotionally connected, although he occasionally avoids heavy conversations.

Flexibility: Being open to new experiences is great, but the constant search for novelty could mean avoiding emotional connection.

Red Flag: If control is his ultimate fantasy, it may signal a deeper struggle with power dynamics.